Belajar Writing

Part I.

HOMESCHOOLING

I.                   Introduction

Thesis statements: Homeschooling could be the right ways of learning, but it has advantages, as well as the disadvantages from it.

II.                Body

A.   The Advantages of Homeschooling

1.      Control the schedule

a.       Don’t have to waste the time.

b.      Can set the time.

c.       Has immediate access to the teacher.

d.      Can learn longer for the fun subject.

2.      Parents in order to teach their children.

a.       Can give a cheap practice.

b.      Bring the children to the educational place.

c.       Control what the children learn.

3.      Child safety

a.       Keep the children closer and more protected.

b.      Won’t expose to real world issues.

c.       Choose who adults have access to the children.

B.     The Disadvantages of Homeschooling

1.      Lack of socialization

a.       Not being able of to associate.

b.      Inability to socialize well.

c.       The social skills can stop.

2.      Less of the resources

a.       Better resources in public school.

b.      The cost of homeschooling.

c.       Parents inadequate teaching skills.

III.             Conclusion

Closing Statement:

In conclusion, there are good and bad things about homeschooling and for each family it varies on what will work for them. Taking into account the advantages and disadvantages, you must make sure everything before you take a decision about pushing your kids into public school, or pulling them out. Public school or homeschooling seen well but it also can be bad depending from the ability of the parents to dedicate a lot of time. Whatever the decision is, I think the most important thing is to make sure that the child is in the best learning environment possible. Do that and everything else can work itself out.

HOMESCHOOLING

Educating our children is one of the most important responsibilities. Nowadays, parents choose to homeschooled their children for many different reasons. Sometimes a kid sick and can’t go to regular school. But more often, kids are homeschooled because their parents feel they can give their child a better education than the public school can. Deciding if homeschooling is the best option for your family is something that has to be given a lot of thought, and though it may be tough, could be exact what are you looking for. On the other hand, if there are too many complicating factors involved, then it would be safer for your Childs education to enroll them in school, and allow the system to educate them. Both ways have their positives and also negative, like homeschooling could be the right ways of learning, but it has advantages, as well as the disadvantages from it.

Attending public school, there are a lot of things that end up to waste the time that is can be eliminated with a homeschooled environment. The travel time to school (and back), the breaks between classes, and disruptions from other students are all things that waste time in which students could be learning. When learning at home, a lot of those are eliminated, and that time can be saved for more another options such as reading breaks, or even ending the sessions of the day a little bit earlier. Having complete control over the schedule, and not having to rely on other factors for how long is spent on a topic, you can set longer time for the fun subject. Working in your own breaks at home can subject, they can go out and play for a while.

At home the students immediate access to the “teacher”, and can ask question any time without having to worry about others. This can be huge advantage, because if the students don’t understand something, you can stop and go over it with them, without to worry about a class full of students falling behind. But the important that if at home the child is having a lot of fun subject, so the session can be longer to learn.

These are a lot of tools out there that can use by a parent in order to teach their kids at home. By using those and by taking advantage of the world around us, the kids can get a cheap practice but still have an educational meaning. If the parents want teach about history, they can bring their children to the museum and make it like museum tour, or go to library can be a nice breaks but still fun and educational at the same time. All subjects can be real-life practice so that will correlate to what you are teaching, and by moving lesson around, you will be able to show a different and potentially more interesting side of all subjects. From that you decide what they are going to read, and you can provide them with a lot of literature that can’t even be found in schools anymore.

One of debated topics with advantages to home schooling is being able to keep your children closer, and more protected. By not forcing them to go through the bad side of public education, they won’t be exposed to real world issues such as smoking, drugs and sex as often as a public school child would. This can help them to keep away from it, and taught well about the problems that could be associated with these vices. The opposite side is, if you aren’t faced with things like that, you may not know how to react when it happen into real life situation where they are in play. That could be a risk if you are doing homeschooling, but making sure that your kids have all of the information at hand, so they can make right decisions.

The parents can choose the best tutors or teachers for their children, if they thought that they don’t have a capability to teach. The tutor or teacher usually more experts in their fields and have a good skill for teaching. The teacher can bring the student to research the issue together.

The main disadvantages of homeschooling will be the lack of socialization by your children. Some homeschoolers may feel cut off from their friends or not being able to associate with other kids because they feel like too much spend the time with their families. An inability to socialize well, shyness that comes with not being around other kids, and they made work better as an individual rather than in team or group. And like any child, they may be on sport teams, in dance classes, or take part in other activities outside of school, all that social skills have an open environment to hang out with kids their own age, and if not in school, then there should be another source.

Another disadvantage to being homeschooled is that resources aren’t as enough as they are in public school setting. The theory is that schools will have better books, and the teachers will have a better education than a parent does, the parents must be willing to be a person for everything. The cost of homeschooling is not cheap, because to complete the children education, the parents must pay the tutors, purchase the textbooks and teaching materials and it makes it harder for the family that is doing the homeschooling.

The final disadvantage is the inadequate teaching skills from the parents to educate their children at home. Almost parents lost their patience and become frustration when they have to teach and answer the question about all subjects that they kids ask to them. Because not all subjects that the parents understand with good. The effect from that is the kids become frustrated when the parents are giving a hard subject, and that when they get flustered, you can’t allow yourself to do the same. It is important that you are able to separate at times the role of parents and teacher, because you will have to be there for your child in a different manner in times like these. The key is that you have to know that you will be teaching and that really is going to be a full-time job.

In conclusion, there are good and bad things about homeschooling and for each family it varies on what will work for them. Taking into account the advantages and disadvantages, you must make sure everything before you take a decision about pushing your kids into public school, or pulling them out. Public school or homeschooling seen well but it also can be bad depending from the ability of the parents to dedicate a lot of time. Whatever the decision is, I think the most important thing is to make sure that the child is in the best learning environment possible. Do that and everything else can work itself out.

Part II.

Helping Children Discover Their Own Identity

I.                   Introduction

Thesis statement: In terms of knowledge of the world, one must admit, they seem to surpass children brought up in the era when technological occasion, needs to be stressed.

II.                Body

A.    The parents need to respect and give good respond to their child’s changed

1.      Ideal advice from different family.

a.       In democratize family.

b.      In conservative family.

2.      A parent’s family background

a.       Parent’s mind-set from their father and mother.

b.      Implant the values and norms.

B.     Guide the children in the search of true identity.

1.      Parents have to listen and accommodate the feedback.

2.      Parents should not overprotect.

3.      Intervention is not necessary.

C.    Conclusion

Closing statement:

The best way parents can aid their children is by successfully discovering their true identity and growing up to be an emotionally mature adult is to take a flexible approach. Parents need not always rigidly follow and impose certain norms and values, which are imbued with their family tradition during their childhood, on their children.

HELPING CHILDREN DISCOVER THEIR OWN IDENTITY

Nowadays, children are different from those in the past. The modern technology makes their easier to get a lot of information. For knowledge about the world also easy to get in this new era, so learn about technology is very important.

First, the parents need to understand about to changing of their child’s world, and give positive respond on it. Along those lines, control from the parents still need.

Moreover, in different families have also different rules, like who raised in democratize family usually have a freedom to do their childhood. But in conservative and authoritative family usually more tight with the rules to their children based on the correct norms and values.

Another influence from the parent’s family background can be the formula to his/ her children to learn both formal and informal education. But the parents must remember that not all the mind-set which their adapted from their parents can be useful for the children in this modern reality. Everything has changed now, so parents have to compare with the academic achievement. However, a lot of parents still think and act like they know what the best for their children are from their values and norms.

In helping children to find their identity, today’s the parents should listen and take a feedback from their children. It seems hard to do for the conservative or traditional parents, but have a good impact to develop the emotional for their Child until they mature enough.

  The other thing that the parents should do is not too use their power to overprotect their child, because it can make their child’s ability being unable. The intervention from the parent not always good but can be a bad solution. Sometimes the parents forget that the children just want them to stay in the lines and being a supporter and resource to help their children to face the world.

This is not an easy situation. In the other hand parents need to help their children from the socialized problems that may come. They must give a best ways to help their children not just a family standards but the right attitude for them.

The important things for helping their children is to find their identity with the best ways and let their being mature with good emotional. Parents do not need to overprotect and lead strict rules from their tradition during their childhood, on their children. Try to look from your children side that wills a best experience for them.